The trap of changing my circumstances to feel happy

I once had a client who was convinced that if he had a successful business he would be happy.  He decided to have a million pound turnover within 2 years.  Through coaching with me he reached his goal within 18 months.  That was a cause for celebration.  Then he realized that he was working very hard indeed and managing […]

By |January 14th, 2015|blog|0 Comments|

I thought I had to focus on problems…

For many years before learning about the three Principles I thought I had to focus on problems and help people to fix themselves to have a happy life. Indeed, I was known as a good intuitive detective.  I could find out what was at the root of my own problems and other peoples problems very quickly and work to […]

By |April 25th, 2014|blog|0 Comments|

I went to bed with Facebook!

For many years I have refused to engage or use Facebook, as my business practice was successful and despite asking many of the experts about it and having their advice that it was the right thing to do for the future, I continued to resist it.  I felt it was time consuming to start with but also, why on […]

By |April 17th, 2014|blog|0 Comments|

Are you afraid of your “bad” feelings?

After many years of training as a counsellor and a leader in Energy Psychology I learned to fully experience my uncomfortable feelings whatever they were.  I also learned to believe those feelings.

I had no idea that if I just noticed the thoughts that created the feelings, then left them alone they would simply dissipate.  Leaving my uncomfortable feelings alone […]

Do People, Circumstances and Events ruin your life?

I used to believe that it was people, circumstances and events that affected my life.  I lived and experienced my life as if that was the truth. When I believed that life was “out there”, outside of myself,  in my mind it meant that I had to change myself to live the kind of successful life I wanted.  That […]

By |December 10th, 2013|blog|3 Comments|